What Is Romance?
Speak mindfully, listen attentively. Nothing’s more cosy that having a kind and gentle partner
“From the first time that I set my eyes on you baby I was stuck on you, omo me I’ll come for you, make my body come for you, all for you…Call me Mr romantic…”
If you’re familiar with this song by Korede Bello, you’ll get a pretty good idea of what romance means. However, the definition of romance these days seems to have many meanings – To a woman, romance may mean the love and affection from a lover.
To a man, romance may mean s*x and all the roads leading to it. To an alcoholic, romance may mean drinking one bottle of beer for longer than normal. Whatever the case may be, this post will address the real definition of romance.
Let’s start with the definition, what is Romance? Romance is one’s deep and strong emotional desire to connect with another person intimately or romantically. Human beings have this natural inclination to form bonds with one another, through verbal or non-verbal gestures.
Basically, the idea behind romance is “thoughtfulness” – a small gift when least expected, kind words, little favors, etc. Romance is best when you are creative. If you know your partner doesn’t like flowers, don’t buy her flowers, instead get her a lovely book or something if she’s a reader. Make an effort to sustain that relationship by getting to know each other better, but respect each others SPACE!