Love is a rampage of insecurities and an intense workout of emotions. Though the reward is very sweet, it’s a constant struggle during which a person has to go against their nature, while harboring the fruit of warmth, affection and trust.
Love is war
When you marry a person, you have to own everything and everybody in that relation. You are out with friends and over a couple of drinks, you start cracking jokes. It all starts with small puns, about your partner and your relationship, everyone shares a good laugh but soon these jokes start to get personal.
That is the time when you step in and try to take hold of the situation and defend your partner. I have seen people who completely ignore their partners’ insecurity and let out a huge cackle of joy.
A situation where your partner feels ridiculed by you in public is the breaking point. You maybe siding with someone out of respect, or having a good laugh to lighten up your mood, but the emotional turmoil inside your partners’ heart maybe disastrous for your relationship.
The joy of marriage is such, that you might be at a war in the premises of your bedroom but to the world you should be at war with whoever tries to belittle your partner.