5 Lies Women Need To Stop Telling Themselves When They Are In An Unhappy Relationship
Relationships have the power to turn any rational and balanced individual into a delusional human being. I’m guilty of letting a relationship take over my rational thinking abilities and I’m sure quite a lot of my readers feel the same.
And you can’t really blame us! When you’re in a relationship, when you feel like this person standing in front of you might be your only shot at true happiness, and when you get so used to this title of being called their girlfriend, it becomes hard to see and accept all the things that are so obviously wrong with the relationship.
Here are 5 lies women tell themselves to try and save a failing relationship:
He will change with time
Do you really even believe yourself when you say that? Yes, people do change with time but if someone is intrinsically bad or indifferent, if they’ve spent all their life worrying about nothing but their own happiness, their own needs and wants, then it’s very unlikely that these features about their personality will eventually change.
And if you feel that the guy you’re dating just isn’t the kind of person you truly want, it’s not a very good idea to continuously try and change them completely.
They may start resenting you for it and your efforts will end up doing the opposite of what you intended.